The Complexities of Long Distance Relationships

Many people enter long distance relationships by default. This frequently happens when one member of a couple receives a job transfer or goes to college in another state or country. When this occurs, a traditional relationship all of a sudden becomes long distance and there are many complexities that are involved. Most people will choose to try and make the long distance relationship work because they do not like the idea of giving up based on distance. But, are long distance relationships really realistic?

Strain

There is a great deal of strain placed on couples who live apart. This occurs because they cannot see each other on a regular basis and do the things that normal couples do. Long distance relationships involve all the difficult aspects of a relationship like commitment and communication, but none of the fun parts like physical contact and companionship. All the work with no pleasure is stressful and often is the relationship’s doom.

Cost

Long distance relationships are more expensive than one might imagine. That is because of the cost of high phone bills, tapped cell phone minutes and travel expenses. The actual distance will affect the amount of travel expenses, although many will buy plane tickets to visit their partner. This can add up to big bucks and many times the cost of a visit outweighs the desire to see one another. Money has a huge impact on the success of a long distance relationship.

Temptation

When a couple is separated it is much more difficult to remain committed and faithful. Relationships are affected every day by infidelity and commitment issues with partners who see each other daily. So, imagine how difficult it is to avoid the temptation of a one night stand or dating several people at once when your partner will never know any better. Temptation is one of the biggest reasons long distance relationships do not work.

Loneliness

Partners who really try and make their long distance relationship work experience a great deal of loneliness. It is difficult being in a relationship and being lonely when you could be in a relationship with someone close by and not be lonely.

Are They Realistic?

In general, long distance relationships are not realistic. There are some couples who beat the odds and make the long distance relationship work. This occurs in many relationships where the long distance aspect is only for a set period of time, like a few months. Long distance relationships that have no plan for the couple to be together soon are very fragile and most likely will not survive.

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